Why I Love My Neighborhood Toy Store

Whenever possible, I prefer to shop both locally and at non-big-box chains, as anyone who follows me on Foursquare already knows.  You get more personalized (and often better) customer service, a variety of toys you don’t always find in chains, and the quality of the merchandise that is available is often of a higher quality then you can find in larger chain stores.

One of our favorite toy stores, and one I have written about before, is The Learning Express of Montclair, NJ.  They have the nicest sales staff, really cool (and educational, fun) toys stocking the shelves, and never (not even once) have I bought a toy from them that broke within a year.  (The one that broke after a year was inflated much too  much by an enthusiastic 4 year old.)

Gift wrapping is available, the team that works there actually knows A- what products they have in stock, B- where to find them, and C- what to suggest if you need an idea or what you are talking about if you come in with a vague idea of what you are looking for and don’t know the actual name.  Imagine that!  An informed, caring staff.

Our local toy store also has nearly all of ASTRA’s Best Toys for Kids available.  Non-Profit organization ASTRA helps parents and people with kids in their lives easier by compiling a list of the year’s best toys that they can refer to, based on a panel of 650 expert judges.

Some of the included toys this year are (click here for the full list of toys)-

Bunny Peek A Boo

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In our house, my husband and son love games. They love when we get to have our special game nights. I am always on the look out for new games that we can add to these. Bunny Peek a Boo will be a new regular for us, even if it is meant to be a 1 person game.

  • 1 Player Games
  • Multilevel
  • Easy Storage
  • Durable

The Smart Games company has a large variety of games for your children. They are great because they can all be played with just one person, or you can easily adjust for more people to join you.

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5 Ways to Keep Your Home Safe for Baby

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All parents want their kids to grow up healthy and happy, and for the first few years of their lives, the responsibility for making this happen rests solely on your shoulders. You baby relies upon you for food, shelter, warmth, and other creature comforts, as well as love and attention. And while you can provide for all of these needs, it’s also important that you create a home environment that is as safe as possible for the youngest member of your family. This doesn’t necessarily mean installing a home alarm system or surveillance cameras, although this is certainly an option to protect your home and everyone that lives there. It means looking at your home from the level of a baby in order to spot the hazards that tiny tykes are likely to come in contact with, and then addressing any issues you find. And here are just a few ways to get started.

Baby gates and bumpers. What you’ll quickly discover is that there are certain areas of your home that you want to keep your baby away from, especially as he starts to crawl and walk. You may also find that your furnishings are a source of potential hazard for your child. And this is what baby gates and bumpers are made for. You can put gates across stairwells and in doorways to rooms that your baby shouldn’t enter (the kitchen or bathroom). And bumpers can go on the corners of furniture (like a glass coffee table) in order to ensure that your accident-prone baby suffers only minor bumps and bruises rather than dangerous cuts. For heavy furnishings that you baby might use to help him stand, you should also add safety straps and consider affixing items on top (wobbly lamps that might fall, for example) with Velcro tape.
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Let’s Rhyme With Time (Kids Educational)

Has your child ever asked you what time it was when there was a large clock hanging nearby? Author Carmine Dapice believes that children are losing the ability to tell time on round clocks rather than digital.  A retired schoolteacher, Dapice wrote “Let’s Rhyme With Time” designed to teach children in school, at home or independently.

Dapice has created a book and included workbook with pages that contain catchy rhymes and illustrations synonymous with the Letter People – things children are already using in kindergarten.  So Carmine, do you have time for a little chat?

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Samantha- What inspired you to write the book?

Carmine Dapice- The writing of this long poem came by way of inspiration to write down my thoughts in poetic form, which I had already been doing for several years. It was later that the realization came to me that many kids were unable to tell time on regular, round clocks and it proved to be a problem for many since their orientation was toward digital clocks. The lively animated numbers and poetic form – hopefully – would attract their interest to numbered clocks that are still found in many areas of life.

S- Why do you feel children are losing this skill?

CD- Simply, ask several children in the age bracket of 5 years and up – even in later years to give the time from an analog numbered clock and you might be shocked with some of the results. My granddaughter was asked to give the time and even though an analog clock was present in that room, she had to walk into the next room to give the time from a digital clock. Now if that isn’t a strong motivation that a learning tool for analog clocks is necessary, what else would be! At the time, she was ten years old. It was sort of shocking to me.
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The Anxious Traveler Author Interview

9/11  for most of us bring about old emotions, fears, and every single memory of where we were and what we did on that day 12 years ago.  Along with that for those of us that commute or travel, comes anxiety about traveling, multiplied as we all wonder with unease whether terrorists will try to commemorate this day with another attack.

Rita Anya Nara, author of the book The Anxious Traveler feels that we might be worried about another 9/11 attack from the skies in vain.  Rita- what makes you so sure?

 

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Samantha- What made you want to write this book?
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On February 22, 2013, I reached my ultimate travel dream, one I had harbored since I was five years old:  I reached the seventh and final continent on earth, Antarctica.  I had this emotional moment on the ship deck when I realized how far I’d come from cutting pictures of travel destinations out of National Geographic all weekend, and telling my doctor in 2001 that I’d never be able to go anywhere, ever.  And yet here I was, 38 countries, hundreds of challenges, and thousands of breakthroughs later.  I had the compelling need to share with others everything I had learned about how to travel successfully despite suffering from chronic anxiety.  I didn’t want to write a memoir – I wanted to lay out the dozens of strategies and approaches I’d discovered and observed about how to be a successful traveler, anywhere, with (or without) anyone, despite having an anxiety disorder or problems managing stress.  I had a lot of time inside my stateroom when it was too cold to go out on deck, so I started writing the Anxious Traveler.


S- Do you truly feel that 9/11 is the safest day to travel?  Or just to fly?
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I believe it’s the safest day of the year to fly in the U.S.


S- Why do you feel that way?
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Because of the vigilance of security officials at airports, the degree of attention paid to aircraft safety and air traffic on that day, and the unwavering and absolute determination of thousands of enforcement personnel around the country to avoid a repeat attack.  Passengers are also far more vigilant; most everyone is watching someone else.  They’re not leaving bags unattended to check their boarding time; they have an eye out for something “off”; and they’re on guard.  They’ve learned from 9/11 that tragedies happen when we’re least expecting them.

There are fewer flyers than normal just because of the number of people avoiding the date.  Fewer passengers means fewer distractions in airports and on planes, and often, time for more thorough screening checks.  Random post-security checks are much more frequent than normal, and by the time you get on the plane, you’ll probably feel incredibly relieved… and safe.


S- What first made you look at it as a safe day?
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Talking to security officials and airline representatives about what they go through every September to make sure there’s not a repeat attack on 9/11.   I could see the stress, confidence, and determination in their faces all at the same time.  They were the models of working through fear.  If it weren’t for them, airports would be ghost-towns on 9/11.  We’d have an annual travel shutdown day instead of an anniversary that commemorates our resilience.


S- Have you gotten hate mail since publishing The Anxious Traveler?
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I have gotten some snarks from bloggers that “headcases” and “nervous wrecks” should stay home for their own good (and to avoid being a “distraction” to others), but that’s all.  The overwhelming feedback I’ve gotten is that the book is very inspiring, and very informative.  It’s not my memoir; there’s not much about me beyond the first chapter.  It’s a true guidebook to help other anxious travelers plan a trip from A to Z – and then take it, and enjoy it.

As a society, we value overcoming personal obstacles and barriers to reach our full potential; this is a fundamental American belief.  It’s certainly something we want to teach our children.  Anxiety is something you can confront and manage in order to do what you want to do, and travel is a life-enriching way to overcome your fears in the real world instead of relying on only medication or behavioral therapy.  So I believe the message resonates with a great number of people, and in a very positive way. 

S- I have been to airports on 9/11- and you are right, it’s nearly impossible to move or fly, and I will never do it again for that reason.  Do you recommend traveling on that date?
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5 Ways to Motivate Children to Do Better in School

As a concerned and caring parent, you obviously want your children to do well in school. The progress they achieve in their academic studies now could determine how they fare for the rest of their lives, including the colleges they’re able to attend and the types of jobs they’ll ultimately hold. Of course, most kids are not that forward-thinking. They’d rather play with their friends, play video games, and goof off than do homework or study for tests. So there will be times when you have to make them buckle down and do their work. But really, wouldn’t you rather motivate them so that they take an interest in the prospect of their own future? The answer, of course, is yes, but actually motivating your children is not quite so simple. So here are just a few ways that you might instill in them a desire to do better in school.

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1   Help them with studies. Often, kids can get frustrated, bored, and discouraged when left to manage a mountain of homework on their own. But when you take the time to participate in the process, you not only have the ability to monitor their academic progress, but also to assist them with any problems they may be having and build confidence in their abilities through encouragement and praise. When kids associate academics with positive feelings, they’re going to be a lot more motivated to try hard and succeed in school.
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Want to Lose Weight? Take the Baby for a Walk

It can be hard to lose that pregnancy weight after you have the baby.  However, it’s really important for new moms to get moving. Stroller walks can be a routine moms can employ to regain their health and pre-baby weight.

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Stroller walking is a wonderful way for mom to begin focusing on her health once the new baby arrives, and you can spend time with the little one and introduce them to the great outdoors.  Here are the great reasons for mom to start a stroller walking routine:

Helps new moms’ mental and physical well-being
Combats post baby blues
Gets mom out of the house so she won’t feel so isolated with their baby
Encourages her to meet other new moms and form playgroups
Helps mom to implement an easy exercise routine
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The Piccolo Chef Cookbook

Cooking with your kids is a lot of fun, and it’s the best way to teach them some great healthy eating habits! The Piccolo Chef Cookbook by Tina Fanelli Moraccini and Lilian Palmieri is a healthy way to start getting the kids not only interested in helping you out in the kitchen but getting them to eat it too.P1130664

We’re all busy sure but meal time should be family time also. Why not get them in the kitchen and pitch in on making the meals as well?  The idea being Piccolo Chef is encouraging the kids to be a part of that meal. It boosts confidence and even creativity. My own kids have so much fun helping me make a meal and they are more willing to eat it rather than when I simply just set food down before them. You engage them in the entire process they are much more likely to get something more out of it, and that’s worth all the time in the world. It’s quality time spent as a family and they will have so much fun you’ll want to do it everyday!

 

The cookbook is full of inviting pictures, wonderfully illustrated throughout . Each recipe is easy to read and clearly written directions. There’s tips throughout each as well, nutritional and even kitchen tips to help you and the kids create some wonderful meals. With Chapters on Breakfast through dinner and even snacks you have everything covered. There aren’t any hard recipes in here either, so they are truly kid friendly, and appeal to both adults as well as kids. I really enjoyed the breakfast section, with school in full gear we need healthy yet friendly morning meals and this book had wonderful ideas. The California Frittata was my favorite while the kids begged for the Buckwheat Pancakes.
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Bronx Zoo August Events

Come take a ride on the thrilling Dinosaur Safari! Witness over 20 animatronic creatures roar, hiss, move, and spit water on this electrifying prehistoric journey. Make sure you catch this exciting ride before it goes extinct, now until September 8th. On Wednesdays – Sundays, catch Adaptations! A Dinosaur Musical, and gain insight into the adaptive traits that help the zoo’s modern animals survive and thrive. For details,  times and information, check out bronxzoo.com/dino.  For exciting discounts, check out  bronxzoo.com/t-rex.  And you can take a chance and win a fabulous weekend of NY activities and free entry to Dinosaur Safari, by entering the Dinosaur Safari Sweepstakes at Bronxzoo.com/sweeps.

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